Because weddings are such an important part of our culture and tradition, we put a lot of effort into making ours special and unique. Every bride wants a wedding that not only she will remember as a happy experience but that will leave a positive impression on her friends and family for years to come.

Although it’s important to stay true to yourself and your personal style when planning a wedding, remember that part of who you are is represented in the people who are a part of your life. Be sure to include your future husband and your family and friends in the wedding planning. While the wedding should primarily reflect you and your mate’s tastes, including the ideas of family and friends is a great way to honor their role in leading you to this day.

The most important thing to remember is that making a wedding unique is not about comparing yourself to other people. Who cares if your friend secured the most obscure indie rock band to play at her reception? It doesn’t matter how much your friend spent on her cake. Part of being unique and personalizing your wedding is relying on your own tastes and instincts, without worrying what other people will think or have done.

One great way to make your family a part of your wedding and stay unique at the same time is to wear you mother’s wedding dress. While this has been a popular trend for years and thousands of brides do this every year, it gives you a chance to have a truly one of a kind dress. Obviously the dresses are usually not immediately wearable. Because of this many brides get them altered and add modern twists.

Another way to personalize your wedding is to have it at a location that is special to you. Many weddings in Houston and other large cities are held at city parks, libraries, or other locations.

Many couples choose to have their wedding reception at the home of a friend or family member. While this is a great choice and adds a cozy family element to the event, don’t underestimate the amount of work that goes into hosting the event yourself.